thanks for the tip, i am 100% sure it is in the firing mechanism. i am dumb, and bought a WHOLE NEW GUN, put my modded slide and mag in it, and viola! everything is fine. so it must be hammer/striker related.
once i find a free moment i will fix it. i have the other one for sale here......
http://www.airsoftforum.com/board/FS...l&pid=18083243